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When she was a year old, I held my daughter Georgia at the closed window of our 30th floor New York City apartment so we could look out over Times Square.<\/p>\n
Across the street, stretching the full length of a 40-floor building, was a painting of Dwight Gooden, the ace Met\u2019s pitcher, coiled in his wind-up with his eyes staring straight at us from under his cap.<\/p>\n
I had the habit of asking Georgia, \u201cIs it a cloudy day or a sunny day?\u201d\u00a0 Soon enough, however, it got more complicated, and our conversation evolved.\u00a0 In other words, sometimes it was not all cloudy or all sunny.\u00a0 Sometimes, it was both.<\/p>\n
So it is with effective communication<\/strong>.\u00a0 Not in terms of sun and clouds, but in terms of assertiveness and empathy<\/strong>.\u00a0 We need both\u2014the will to assert and the sensibility to speak into the listeners\u2019 capacity to hear.<\/p>\n
We do the audience a service to be assertive because we give them something to push against, to poke holes in, and thus create a dialogue between our experience and theirs.<\/p>\n