Oh
balance, where art thou?
As presenters,
we are out of balance. We’ve got lots of content and not
much pizzazz, or we ooze pizzazz and lack content, or we’ve
got pizzazz and content but we fail to connect with our audience.
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Balance is important to high stakes
presenters. And for presenters, balance is a combination of subject
matter expertise, knowledge of the audience, and effective delivery
skills.
Which comes first?
Content is king, and yet the world
is littered with the corpses of experts who couldn’t sell
their ideas.
Al Gore is a good example of a smart
man who lost the election in part because he had difficulty connecting
with his audience.
And Cicero said about delivery that
“unless it stands guard over the material, the material will
evaporate, no matter how precious it was in itself.”
An actor’s life for me!
As a young man, I was an actor, and
while studying acting in New York, discovered that with vocal and
physical training I could improve my presence and appeal on the
stage.
This made me happy...
So what?
When I began coaching people in business
in 1989, I soon realized that while my clients did need help with
their vocal and physical issues, (or stage presence), they first
needed something to say, and they needed to say it well.
As an actor, I spoke the brilliant
words of William Shakespeare and other playwrights. But, who
writes the lines for business people?
We all write for ourselves! We use
the specialized language of our particular industry and function
to write our presentations. And while we may be subject matter experts,
we typically lack training in public speaking, or experience as
speech writers, or story tellers.
What speakers need…
Speakers need to know more than what
to say. They need to know how to make their material appealing to
the audience.
For instance, unlike bestselling novels,
textbooks fail to excite. They have the facts, but lack drama. Same
with most business presentations. To win standing ovations and achieve
positive results, we must structure our material so that it develops
and entertains like a good story.
But having something to say and saying
it well are not enough. Your audience has to find you trustworthy
and likeable. Who you are speaks louder than what you say.
Rediscovering history
Discovering this brought me to a stunning
realization: I was learning through trial and error what the
world had known since about 400 B.C.!
In his writings on persuasive speaking,
Aristotle observed that a good speaker needs ethos, pathos,
and logos, and that each one is necessary—but not sufficient—for
success.
So what are ethos, pathos, and logos?
Logos—what you say
Logos is information and expertise,
without which you cannot speak the language of your discipline,
whether you’re a marketer, engineer, or portfolio manager.
Aristotle called it the intellectual appeal—the reasoned argument
you make to convince your audience.
Most of us are logos-oriented individuals,
committed to the power of facts, proof and reasoning. If we can
prove something is true, we often assume others will feel compelled
to accept it. Good “logos” arguments are sometimes necessary
for persuasion, but usually not sufficient..
Pathos—how you say it
Pathos is the emotional appeal—the
way you link your ideas to the motives, feelings, attitudes and
knowledge of the audience. Pathos includes how you sequence your
talk to capture and keep their attention.
Emotional appeals are rarely successful
by themselves, because we must have reasons to justify our feelings.
Ethos—who says it
Ethos is the ethical appeal of the
speaker—his or her trustworthiness and likeability. If the
audience doesn’t trust you or like you, it doesn’t matter
how smart you are or how much you know.
We don’t open emails from people
we don’t know, and we don’t accept messages from speakers
we don’t trust.
Bill Clinton had a lot more influence
before Monica-gate. And Rudolph Giuliani seemed to grow in stature
as he responded to the crisis of 9/11. His genuine caring and authenticity
has earned him a shot at the White House.
A call for balance
High stakes presenting is not just
about content, knowing your audience, or brilliant delivery. Rather,
it is the right balance of all three.
Oh balance, where art thou? It’s
within us, if we take the time to create it.
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